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Friday, July 06, 2007
Big Fish Little Fish
I'm getting flooded with calls and emails about his lies! People are bursting to tell the truth. Someone is going to finally have enough and go first and then the floodgates will open. More on this later. Talk away.
I don't think she's going anywhere here, other than to defend Christianity.
I really do wonder sometimes if some of the Supporterz are just naive Christian folks who can't reconcile Casey's behavior with his religious identity. I've known more than a few of that crowd who would give anyone flying under the banner a free ride for damned near anything - the alternative being having to admit that not all Christians are decent people.
Amazing how this woman can talk for so long and say absolutely nothing.
I've been semi-transcribing and loading onto CaseyPedia as I go along, so for those poor folk w/o audio, check out fragments of transcript if you really really can't wait. Unfortunately I missed Mark and Duane =(
Not drinking. Just had a Dad that was really funny, and a very hard worker. Oh and honest to a fault. He made me "naturally born funny", I reckon. Disclaimer: I am not an Attorney or a Party to anything. te he OMG Her RIBS!!! AND HER DIET!!! Okay, she is much too delicate to be a haterz!
DUMP HER! BAN HER! How much can a PERSON TAKE!!! Michael tell Casey to get rid of this sick person. Oh, well it is a good match they 'may' both be sick. May is my disclaimer word.
This lady is sharp. Now he's muting her because she's getting too close.
This will probably be the last fraudcast, folks; he's getting too hip to the fact that folks have dissected his conversation methods;he's using the mute button like a little dictator; and the next fraudcast will be us listing to this asshole drone on. It's over.
I haven't told anyone that, this is the first time I'm telling anyone that.
That's because it's a lie, and you just pulled all of that out of your ass. Except the partnering on the blog thing. You are stupid enough to attempt that at this point, so that is probably true.
There is N.F.W. that the scammer playing Casey as a mark is ready to pay $50k for "part" ownership of the blog. This is more fantasy than the casino deal.
Ending on a call to seek professional help for his problems.
I doesn't think he needs it!
Organic brain surgery!
My God I'm two hours older and stupider than when we started.
Well, I burned up minutes and he wouldn't let me on either. Dumb fuck - I just wanted to ask him if his dumbass is looking forward to being Bubba's bitch!
in reality - how can he listen to Duane say that Galina called bawling less than an hour earlier and he blew it off??? Pitchforks united!
" Can we take up a collection and buy the fliptard a vasectomy? I'd chip in for that."
Nah, I can't go there 'cause he might blow the money. What I will do, though, is volunteer my boss set of garage tools and my labor to do it. No experience, but I'm a quick learner.
He probably should have thought of that before defrauding her of $23K... The first time I read his blog, I was somewhat sympathetic, but by reading #3 when he'd left for Oz, admitting he left Galina penniless while denying it in the same breath, I became a full-on hater. I have absolutely NO sympathy for him at all anymore. And I'm actively wishing bad upon him, which is something I only do for the worst of the worst on this planet. He's a messed up little psycho who needs institutionalization, not compassion.
Maybe we can set it up so we pay the sawbones directly. Sort of like a gift certificate that can't be cashed in, non transferable, and only redeemable for one thing.
I have no problem if the urologist has the shakes.
"After that pyscho woman in MN, my head won't stop hurting...she's as bad as Mocha"
This is not original to me, in fact, a recent thread made reference to the phenomena, but there is something in the offbeat that attracts certain psycho women. That dude Dennis Radar (BTK killer) -- over weight, middle aged, serial killer, sexual sadist without remorse.. had chicks diggin' on him, wanting to hook up.
Now that, my friends is very sick, and yet that is EXACTLY the type that Casey has attracted as his few real 'supporterz™', IMHO.
I just have to say, trying to transcribe nonstop means listening really intently... and now I just want to throw up. UGH. And that JakeMN lady? OMG. I think I lost brain cells.
Get this! When I went back to my old home town, a chick I knew from years gone by was working for our Congressman. She was using the Gov. computer to correspond with Scott Peterson!!!!!!!
Is there anybody who can get some of his recordings together, his documentation, and send it to a Psyche Dept. at some U and have them do a study on him?
How about a "West Virginia" vasectomy? This is really a sight gag, but I can try it here.
Give Casey a beer can and an M-1000 and tell him light the fuse and count to 10 . . . . . . . . He will look at left hand (holding beercan in right) and count off fingers one, two, three, four, five..... . . . . Looks even more confused than normal... places beer can in lap....looks to right hand and counts off fingers.. six, seven.....Pow, cheap vasectomy
Annie gets hour and a half, plus hourly billing rate.
Last time I imbibed schnapps (Peppermint) was after a '70s F1 race at Long Beach & we all followed the bag piper around the racecourse. Rest is kinda hazy, though.
Sorry, gang, I was hoping that he'd admit exactly what his responsibilities were, but no such luck. Foiled by the mute button. I thought I was being polite, but I guess someone thought I wasn't...
Casey is NPD. Every time I listen to one of these things, it becomes more obvious. It's not BPD, nor is it ASPD. He's a narcissist. Unless you understand what that means, none of this makes any sense.
That means he's an utterly hopeless validation junkie. The man (a term I use loosely) literally has no sense of reality, beyond his perception of other peoples' perceptions - like two mirrors facing each other. He actually believes everything he's saying, folks, even though it flatly contradicts things he's said in the past.
The core of NPD is this: if Casey doesn't feel bad about it, it's not a problem. If someone makes Casey feel bad about it, that someone is the problem. If someone prevents Casey from manipulating his way out of the situation, they're creating the problem. He has an inherent right to feel good about himself, and that's the root axiom of his logic.
Casey will *never* change. This will *never* stop. He will behave like this for the rest of his life, constantly in search of people willing to play along and to give him rope to hang himself. It's part of the NPD package.
The hell of being close to an NPD is that they trick you into thinking that, if only you can truly understand what's going on in their head, the abuse will stop. So there's the temptation to play along with the bullshit. However, if you're foolish enough to do it, the abuse gets a LOT worse.
This is NPD.
I'm saying this as a guy who grew up with an NPD parent, who is still dealing with the multifaceted consequences of this person.
The natural long-term reaction is frustration that turns into ingrained anger, coupled with a sort of guilt.. because you know that they can't help it. So you have no outlet except to repress the anger, which only comes out in other ways.
The only ultimate strategy that works with an NPD is containment, isolation and self-protection. An NPD is and always will be a mortal threat, and must be treated as such.
Why? Why not? It was a chance to meet this fellow we're following so closely.
I took him to the Market, had breakfast and a nce chat, then dropped him off at the airport.
I did not bust his castinets or otherwise give him a hard time. I knew he was going home, and figured he could have one last nice visit before returning into the eye of the storm.
I sent Rob Dawg a couple of pix as proof, he can post them if he likes.
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Murst!
Liverwurst!
Shut up woman....gee what a whiny voice....she needs a Casey Murst injection.
Dawg, if you need help sifting those emails, I expect I can find an hour or two this weekend (damn contract work).
Murstish.
I was gonna be Mursty, but then a shiney thing came along...
This entire Talkcast can be summed up in one sentence:
"Everything would have been fine if it hadn't been for those damn haters!"
reposting in the new thread, how long til I can download this talkcast and listen to it all?
AS to this particular caller....
"She needed killin'."
(not for views, just for boredom quotient)
From the last thread:
At 6:45 PM, Honestly Wondering said...
I don't think she's going anywhere here, other than to defend Christianity.
I really do wonder sometimes if some of the Supporterz are just naive Christian folks who can't reconcile Casey's behavior with his religious identity. I've known more than a few of that crowd who would give anyone flying under the banner a free ride for damned near anything - the alternative being having to admit that not all Christians are decent people.
Amazing how this woman can talk for so long and say absolutely nothing.
Ya know?
Yeah. I know.
Damn haterz
he has medical insurance? wtf?
dawg,
give us a taste. we are like a circling group of piranas. we need some blood!
wtf ... she is babbling to fill out his time left for the cast. I am convinced she's a conspirator
Kerriella, it is normally available at least within 24 hours. Should be around tonight or tomorrow morning.
Shit....a woman who talks for hours and says NOTHING....cut her off!
I'm getting flooded with calls
Calls??! Jebus. EXPOSE, ROB, EXPOSE!!!! :-)
pudgey with a dozen cats I bet
Wake me up when she's off the phone. He must be paying her.
I reposted Honestly Wondering's comment because I think it's really good.
Who the fuck cares if her ribs were showing - someone mute this broad!!!
Who cares about his calorie intake?!?!?!
WTF is this woman talking about her diet for?
Obviously stress doesn't affect Casey much.
@The Dude
I work with about 30 menopausal women. Talk about talking about nothing except how hot/cold it is.
Oh thank GAWD -- she is gonna spare us her medical particulars
"....weight loss... energy... ribs stickin' out... put on diet... got sick.... calories..."
Casey "Yeah,..... yeah.... yeah...."
Casey is now a guru.
He just got his first acolyte.
This woman is making me punch kittens.
Nobody gives a fuck about her great grandpa!
@Kerriella: it was usually available within an hour or so of it ending; the last one took about 6 hours, a delay which Casey blamed on TalkShoe.
This woman is fucking NUTS.....cut her off!
'friend who committed suicide' .. from having to listen to her voice ...
I've been semi-transcribing and loading onto CaseyPedia as I go along, so for those poor folk w/o audio, check out fragments of transcript if you really really can't wait. Unfortunately I missed Mark and Duane =(
Schnapps, check your email.
Not drinking. Just had a Dad that was really funny, and a very hard worker.
Oh and honest to a fault.
He made me "naturally born funny", I reckon.
Disclaimer: I am not an Attorney or a Party to anything.
te he
OMG Her RIBS!!!
AND HER DIET!!!
Okay, she is much too delicate to be a haterz!
That long?!?! Holy Crap! I was thinking an hour. *Sigh* Oh well I will just reread all the posts and glean from there until tomorrow.
And what really sucks is that I finally get back to it for this crap! What the heck is she even talking about?
I think now's a good time to actually start reading the 200 page assignment I have due for next Thursday eve. Yawn.
At least the CISSP book is more interesting than this rambling woman. **sigh**
SOMEONE SHUT THIS CALLER THE HELL UP. CASEY?! MUTE. NOW.
Her cat
Her dog
Her story
Her Stress
Her advice
Comment on his body, she wants him.
Chickster - Go Away - Bring on Annie
God, his Supportz™ suck.
Did Casey just sigh in annoyance with his only sympathetic caller?
As soon as Casey realises it is about "her" and not "him" she's history.
Someone, anyone ask him what the ending balance was on the joint checking account that just closed.
He's sucking on foccacio and basil pizza while family is paying for lawyers?
She is praying for him. How sweet.
dear god she can make a sex tape with her great grandpa
who cares if she and her gay husband are praying - I HATE THIS LONG WINDED BROAD!
I refuse to believe this woman is married.
@Michael
I have a phone number for you to send the photo to. Email me at schnapps013@gmail.com to get it.
DUMP HER!
BAN HER!
How much can a PERSON TAKE!!!
Michael tell Casey to get rid of this sick person.
Oh, well it is a good match they 'may' both be sick.
May is my disclaimer word.
"My great granpah..."
I am gonna drive across the coast to muzzle this caller myself...
She is psycho jus' like Casey!
"I thought I was perfectly fine... impressed with how much stuff I got done..."
We get it!!!!
Okay. You are a manic/depressive pseudo-Christian freakazoid.
check.
Now. Put the phone down. Back away from the computer....
her grandfather.. her "calorie diet".. her status as a newlywed.. the high stress weight loss program.. working at 7am.. blather blather blather..
Somewhere in the mountains of Colorado, this woman tonight is hobbling the legs of a badly wounded bestselling author..
This woman, Tavington, and Mocha need to have a Casey love-in threesome. Blecch
@NOA - got it. Thx.
the joint checking account that just closed.
Bravo, Galina. That needed to be done.
Remember, don't get mad at Casey!
He isn't going to have Annie on? Goddamnit.
Hey, lady that just called. Thank you for FINALLY shutting the fuck up.
Better late than never.
I predict this will be Casey's last talkcast.
M Singh!
M SINGH!
Buck Dharma = M. SINGH.... he's headed for a ban!!!
Honestly Wondering envisioned:
"Somewhere in the mountains of Colorado,"
OMG!!!! I lawled!
"I'm your biggest fan!"
Hey, it's Singh!
I think you are right lou.
THATS M. SINGH!!!!
CHJTS
We need a haterz call this weekend to respond and speak to all of Casey's one sided love himself.
OMG. MSINGH.
M SIGNH GOT IN!!!!!!!
Msingh got muted right away
FIFTH BAN OF THE NIGHT!
M. SINGH is zeroing in, Casey dumps him!
He needs to "finish it up with some love"
Ho Ho Ho - It's Santa Flipper Clause
We want Annie!!!!!!!
Santa F. Clause
That woman's husband wasn't praying for Casey, he was praying for his own death.
M Singh!
I LOVE YOU.
I knew it was you the minute you started speaking......
And then he goes and mutes you.
the little troll
Ban on name/reputation alone..I'm impressed
$100 to the first person to make him cry
kc
Is Annie officially banned or are just slathering butter all over the place?
He just said he has HEALTH INSURANCE. Now where is that coming from?? I guess one more lie doesn't matter right? Is never black and white....
Whoops, another hater! LOL
New caller very nuetrally and nicely asks "Did you open the family door..."
Casey, of course, over reacts, blows a gasket... hmmm... why would that be?
Oh, I know. Guilt.
BTW M. Singh, "Buck Dharma" was a good one.
Side note: for those coming in late, NotAnOptimist is doing some sterling live-transcription work on CaseyPedia. Amazing and impressive.
Damnit M.Singh he cut you off before you could go off on him again!
This may be the person to do it. Boy, someone has a short temper tonight....why in the HELL did he do a fraudcast?
"People are trying to sue me, for one little thing I did"
Suuuuuuuure, Casey.
That woman's husband wasn't praying for Casey, he was praying for his own death.
ROFLMAO
He's probably "at the church" schtooking a babe
He's PARTIALLY responsible for it? Partially? Who the hell else is responsible for his situation other than him? UGH. Hater for life!!!
He just said he has HEALTH INSURANCE.
He's mentioned that before; it was I think one of the line items on his spreadsheet.
He's going to partner on the blog to pay off his wife's credit cards?
What happened to Marty?
He's trying that "sell part of the blog but retain control" thing again.
This lady is sharp. Now he's muting her because she's getting too close.
This will probably be the last fraudcast, folks; he's getting too hip to the fact that folks have dissected his conversation methods;he's using the mute button like a little dictator; and the next fraudcast will be us listing to this asshole drone on. It's over.
"...start paying some of this debt..." WTF? Partnership on the blog... Is some looser really going to waste money on fliptard?
Blog partnership???
He's sounding stressed. And unhappy.
Annie?
What a waste of my long distance dollars ---
Geez........
Casey is scared of Annie......
Wifes credit card bs,
I haven't told anyone that, this is the first time I'm telling anyone that.
That's because it's a lie, and you just pulled all of that out of your ass. Except the partnering on the blog thing. You are stupid enough to attempt that at this point, so that is probably true.
Dumbfuck
Last call, are you seeking out psychological help?
Why not?
Silence from Casey.
LOL!!!!!!!!!
"Why not? I don't think I need that."
Have you sought out psychological help?
No?
Why not?
Good last caller there.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
"Why not?
"What does your wife think?"
He's kookoo for...what's that cereal?
Rob.
Pull the cord.
Just do it.
Pull it.
I had breakfast with Casey in Seattle on Wednesday. Really, I did.
And here we go with the natural organic hypochondriac bullshit.
Goodnight!
He thinks getting checked out by a doc is "unnatural"?
He speaks volumes and does not even know it.
sounds like he actually turned it off this time around.
There is N.F.W. that the scammer playing Casey as a mark is ready to pay $50k for "part" ownership of the blog. This is more fantasy than the casino deal.
Ending on a call to seek professional help for his problems.
I doesn't think he needs it!
Organic brain surgery!
My God I'm two hours older and stupider than when we started.
Well, that ended abruptly. What say there won't be any more of these things from his end?
he can't ban everyone who keeps a job. there's too many of us.
LMFAO! It cut off in the middl of his URL!!!!!!!
CLASSIC!!!!!!
Wow!
What a downer ending.
I feel a little ill.
He thinks getting checked out by a doc is "unnatural"?
Yeah, I caught that too.
Sprezzatura, thanks. I thought it was a valid question.
LOL, Casey cut himself off while trying to end the show. :-)
Haterz - 10, Supporterz - 0. Big surprise.
it was I think one of the line items on his spreadsheet.
He's deleted the spreadsheet.
He told CashCall's Mr. King: We have health insurance that we pay and that's 200 dollars a month. That's for self employed health insurance.
Do you think I'm a cookoo???
He has heard it many many many times before.
YA Think????
He needs to
talk to an Organic Doctor and check for food allergies.
There, it is not the haterz fault at all.
SO happy.
I'm on the phone for 90 minutes and he never calls on me....
I have some venting that needs to be done.
Any Haterz cast this weekend?
If not, its all good. I'll turn off the computer and go for a hike.
Can we take up a collection and buy the fliptard a vasectomy? I'd chip in for that.
"I think I'd want to do something natural, without all the pills.."
QUICK! SOMEONE CALL TOM CRUISE!!
He's lost anything and everything good and wortwhile in his life. His own mother has probably cut the ties to him she had. I'd feel unhappy too.
He has heard it 'many many many times' that he should seek professional help because he might be coo-koo?
That speaks volumes!
After that pyscho woman in MN, my head won't stop hurting...she's as bad as Mocha
Annie -- next time (if there is one), use Skype, don't waste your money on the landline.
Well, I burned up minutes and he wouldn't let me on either. Dumb fuck - I just wanted to ask him if his dumbass is looking forward to being Bubba's bitch!
in reality - how can he listen to Duane say that Galina called bawling less than an hour earlier and he blew it off??? Pitchforks united!
Hyper Fart said...
...Except the partnering on the blog thing. You are stupid enough to attempt that at this point, so that is probably true.
Yep. One of the tiny things waiting for release.
At 7:02 PM, Orson Buggy said...
" Can we take up a collection and buy the fliptard a vasectomy? I'd chip in for that."
Nah, I can't go there 'cause he might blow the money. What I will do, though, is volunteer my boss set of garage tools and my labor to do it. No experience, but I'm a quick learner.
Annie.....and all other Haterz who want to call in....
Download Skype....it's FREE
@Schnapps:
It was real, it was good, it was real good, but it wasn't Annie!
I vote we reimburse Annie for her one hour long distance call from the Tip Jar.
And grant her "Honorary Banned" status, too.
Ho Ho Ho - It's Santa Flipper Clause
"Can we take up a collection and buy the fliptard a vasectomy? I'd chip in for that."
Maybe with a dull spoon.
Santa F. Clause
So,w hat have we learned.
1. He thinks he can get Galina back.
2. He has'nt talked to a lawyer.
3. He still thinks he can make a comeback
4. He's scared of Annie and T.
5. He thinks he's famous.
6. His fans are boring as hell.
7. He cannot open his mouth without lying.
@ Joe
He probably should have thought of that before defrauding her of $23K... The first time I read his blog, I was somewhat sympathetic, but by reading #3 when he'd left for Oz, admitting he left Galina penniless while denying it in the same breath, I became a full-on hater. I have absolutely NO sympathy for him at all anymore. And I'm actively wishing bad upon him, which is something I only do for the worst of the worst on this planet. He's a messed up little psycho who needs institutionalization, not compassion.
Can we pay extra for a Vasecotomy from a doctor with Parkinsons?
In case no one caught the reference and thought the ending of tonight's call was a bit anticlimactic..
.. the guy in the Members Only jacket came out of the bathroom and shot him.
"Can we take up a collection and buy the fliptard a vasectomy? I'd chip in for that."
Maybe with a dull spoon.
Or a spork?
8. No concept of reality for Casey.
I'll reiterate the months-old offer of $1000 for Casey to juice his own testicles.
Maybe we can set it up so we pay the sawbones directly. Sort of like a gift certificate that can't be cashed in, non transferable, and only redeemable for one thing.
I have no problem if the urologist has the shakes.
At 7:03 PM, The Dude said...
"After that pyscho woman in MN, my head won't stop hurting...she's as bad as Mocha"
This is not original to me, in fact, a recent thread made reference to the phenomena, but there is something in the offbeat that attracts certain psycho women. That dude Dennis Radar (BTK killer) -- over weight, middle aged, serial killer, sexual sadist without remorse.. had chicks diggin' on him, wanting to hook up.
Now that, my friends is very sick, and yet that is EXACTLY the type that Casey has attracted as his few real 'supporterz™', IMHO.
6. His fans are boring as hell
They are either drug addicts or Fundies.
Fundies are never, ever good.
Elizabeth,
I'm a hater too. I'd kill myself before I did what he did to his parents. My point was to imagine what life was like if your own Mother hated you.
@christiangustafson: I had breakfast with Casey in Seattle on Wednesday. Really, I did.
For the love of God, man: why?
The "Austrian Economics" in your profile rings a distant bell: were you a previous talkcast caller, perchance?
I just have to say, trying to transcribe nonstop means listening really intently... and now I just want to throw up. UGH. And that JakeMN lady? OMG. I think I lost brain cells.
Thank the Dude - Skype it is from now on. That long winded mealy mouthed wench stole my buzz- who the hell cares about her and her grandpa???
Mahk (your new name unfortunately)- I need a conjuction junction, what's your function, against that WOMAN!
Soom,
Get this! When I went back to my old home town, a chick I knew from years gone by was working for our Congressman. She was using the Gov. computer to correspond with Scott Peterson!!!!!!!
Sorry....that's Soem
Again: he is so clearly a sociopath. I don't know about anyone else but the notion of redemption comforted me.. but clearly he is not capable of it.
If nothing else Casey made me grow up. I'm still looking for the lesson here..
@soem dood,
I think it's an "I can save him... He just needs love" sort of thing.
What happened to Michael?
@Wagga - I second that motion to reimburse Annie from the tip jar.
Is there anybody who can get some of his recordings together, his documentation, and send it to a Psyche Dept. at some U and have them do a study on him?
Rob, Duane, Mark, Galina &co: pull the trigger. Pull all the triggers.
The whole Casey phenom is worth a book.
That is the sad thing about this whole debacle - it made me realize how much of a responsible adult I am.
The best line is when he admitted to being "partially" at fault.
soem, some, sum, hey, it's all the same to me what you call me -- just don't call me late for dinner, and...
PLEASE PLEASE DEAR GAWD-- Just don't call me if you are a female MN supporter™, or I'll scratch my eardrums out if I have to hear that again (laugh)
Can someone please post a link to the follow-up cast where M. SINGH speaks?!!
I'm really sorry guys for being so boring. I won't call in again. I didn't really expect him to pick me.
If you'll notice, Rob had 4 graphics lined up for tonight's fraudcast, and the 4th has not been used yet. That might be for the post-call ambush.
@ CSL 7:13
That's another reason to hate the sumbitch!
Annie,
If money isn't the issue email me with what you wanted to say and I'll give it a top post. - Dawg
Yes a link to the follow up would be appreciated.
How about a "West Virginia" vasectomy? This is really a sight gag, but I can try it here.
Give Casey a beer can and an M-1000 and tell him light the fuse and count to 10
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
He will look at left hand (holding beercan in right) and count off fingers one, two, three, four, five.....
.
.
.
.
Looks even more confused than normal... places beer can in lap....looks to right hand and counts off fingers.. six, seven.....Pow, cheap vasectomy
At 7:12 PM, lawnmower man said...
"Rob, Duane, Mark, Galina &co: pull the trigger. Pull all the triggers."
CHEF
"Hello Almighty, Almighty, this is PBR Street Gang -
radio check, over."
RADIO
"Street Gang, this is Almighty, standing by, over."
Someone needs to front him the money for some auditing sessions with the $cientologists. I bet he would jump off the Ft. Harrison Hotel!
Akubi-
He cut the majestic M. SINGH off at the start!
@Schnapps
Annie gets hour and a half, plus hourly billing rate.
Last time I imbibed schnapps (Peppermint) was after a '70s F1 race at Long Beach & we all followed the bag piper around the racecourse. Rest is kinda hazy, though.
Ok, this is getting confusing: there's Annie, Anna and Anne now
Follow up
http://www.talkshoe.com/talkshoe/web/talkCast.jsp?masterId=41311&cmd=tc
What about this one I can't find: 41311?
Sorry, gang, I was hoping that he'd admit exactly what his responsibilities were, but no such luck. Foiled by the mute button. I thought I was being polite, but I guess someone thought I wasn't...
YAY! Thank you Relentless!
It works!
@Akubi
Scroll to the bottom for M. SINGH's brief appearance
Lisa,
Don't worry about it....he's had a lot of experience NOT taking responsibility and tap dancing around serious questions. He's a hard play.
@ Not an Optimist
There is an after hours haterz cast
http://www.talkshoe.com/talkshoe/web/talkCast.jsp?masterId=41311&cmd=tc
Thanks for the wind-down cast... listening in now.
@Lisa
Which caller were you? (for CaseyPedia completeness)
And why is the damn trashcan following me around like a trailing cloud of glory?
Help!
@ murses
Thanks! I was completely unaware. =]
Schnapps,
I'll go in and edit my profile to snackle.
Who's the other guy on with M Singh?
@Dude
Thanks for that...I'm usually better at that...somehow I'm feeling slightly ....Unfulfilled....
wagga:
he he trash can came with forced log in -- let's you delete or edit your post for a while.
I used it on other sites, but here it is seat of pants, and I figure everyone can can take my dyslexic typing or just ignore me... laugh
somehow I'm feeling slightly ....Unfulfilled....
Me too.
At the risk of sounding like a broken record..
Casey is NPD. Every time I listen to one of these things, it becomes more obvious. It's not BPD, nor is it ASPD. He's a narcissist. Unless you understand what that means, none of this makes any sense.
That means he's an utterly hopeless validation junkie. The man (a term I use loosely) literally has no sense of reality, beyond his perception of other peoples' perceptions - like two mirrors facing each other. He actually believes everything he's saying, folks, even though it flatly contradicts things he's said in the past.
The core of NPD is this: if Casey doesn't feel bad about it, it's not a problem. If someone makes Casey feel bad about it, that someone is the problem. If someone prevents Casey from manipulating his way out of the situation, they're creating the problem. He has an inherent right to feel good about himself, and that's the root axiom of his logic.
Casey will *never* change. This will *never* stop. He will behave like this for the rest of his life, constantly in search of people willing to play along and to give him rope to hang himself. It's part of the NPD package.
The hell of being close to an NPD is that they trick you into thinking that, if only you can truly understand what's going on in their head, the abuse will stop. So there's the temptation to play along with the bullshit. However, if you're foolish enough to do it, the abuse gets a LOT worse.
This is NPD.
I'm saying this as a guy who grew up with an NPD parent, who is still dealing with the multifaceted consequences of this person.
The natural long-term reaction is frustration that turns into ingrained anger, coupled with a sort of guilt.. because you know that they can't help it. So you have no outlet except to repress the anger, which only comes out in other ways.
The only ultimate strategy that works with an NPD is containment, isolation and self-protection. An NPD is and always will be a mortal threat, and must be treated as such.
@NotanOptimist
I'm ChicagoBroad66. But I didn't do the south side justice this evening...
Honestly Wondering on NPD:
Wow, well-said.
@Lisa
You did fine, Lisa. Welcome aboard!
Honestly Wondering said...
I'm saying this as a guy
Eek! All this time I thought you were a woman!
@ Honestly Wondering
I understand.
To me, all callers did as well as could be expected tonite, given Casey's quick trigger and other peccadillos.
Even MN probably meant well, but just was a bit....er...ah...'frayed' in her logic/thinking/thread...
I was sad that Singh got the fickle finger and that he never got annie on...
@ lawnmower man
Why? Why not? It was a chance to meet this fellow we're following so closely.
I took him to the Market, had breakfast and a nce chat, then dropped him off at the airport.
I did not bust his castinets or otherwise give him a hard time. I knew he was going home, and figured he could have one last nice visit before returning into the eye of the storm.
I sent Rob Dawg a couple of pix as proof, he can post them if he likes.
Nope, T. Happily male, single, mid-thirties, working writer, Orlando Florida.
@M&P
Thanks for the welcome.. I figured I'd de-lurk for the finale.....
Is Michael still here? I want to know how Casey left!
I would assume KC is no longer in possession of VDubs?
Fraudcast after hours is boring boring boring.
Move it along guys.
Duane, I'm really worried, that he thinks he can fix things with Galina.
He's really starting to creep me out.
This is how stalkers are created, if he won't give up his percieved power over her, it could get ugly.
@M&P -- I don't want to think about that.
@ Lou -- Timmeh!! Nice find :-)
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